Why Your Next Relationship May End like Your Last One [The Psychological Perspective]
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Why Your Next Relationship May End like Your Last One You would be wrong to think I am cursing and wishing that something unpleasant happen to you. You would be so wrong to assume I am insensitive and don’t want … Read More

“Why I Didn’t Marry Rita Dominic” – Relationship Lesson From Jim Iyke
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“Why I Didn’t Marry Rita Dominic” – Relationship Lesson From Jim Iyke’s Interview This article was inspired by an interview Jim Iyke granted to Broadway TV where he said his relationship with Rita Dominic broke up because they were both … Read More

The 5 roles women play in turning men into monsters
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The 5 roles women play in turning men into monsters     Our social media generation has seen many African women quick to jump on any opportunity to bash their men. Ranging from cheats to liars, scum and more recently … Read More

Why Tiwa Savage may be right or wrong on who is the head of the home
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Why Tiwa Savage may be right or wrong on who is the head of the home In a recent interview with OAP Toolz, Tiwa Savage made a statement she admitted would be controversial. “I know I’ll ruffle a few feathers … Read More

The heartrending story of this elderly couple should make you cry
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The heartrending story of this elderly couple should make you cry Few days ago, I shared my perspective on the statements made by an actor whose marriage failed and amidst the applause, I got a few clap backs or should … Read More

Chris Attoh and the Entitlement Mentality of African Men
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Chris Attoh and the Entitlement Mentality of African Men!   I stumbled on a news story where Mr. Chris Attoh who recently announced his separation or divorce from his wife made some statements concerning his failed marriage.   As a … Read More

Becoming the most desirable spouse in the world
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Becoming the most desirable spouse in the world     Let me remind you that a very happy and long-lasting marriage or relationship is possible but it will never happen without a personality upgrade. You cannot give what you don’t … Read More

Just Before You Break-Up That Relationship
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Just Before You Break-Up “I’m just tired of this relationship. I want out please!!!” Plenty relationships that were once great will break-up this year. I’m sorry. It’s not a curse, it’s a fact. Jude and Janet had been dating for … Read More

How to be eligible for a happy and long-lasting marriage
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How to be Eligible for a Happy and Long Lasting Marriage As singles, one of your greatest aspirations or dreams is to tie the knot. You look forward to your wedding day with so much enthusiasm; the dress, the cake, … Read More

The Law of Sowing, The Law of Romance and the Complications of sex
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The Law of Sowing, The Law of Romance and the Complications of sex We can all agree that life is governed by the principle of sowing and reaping. A farmer who planted maize should not expect to reap pineapple except … Read More

Fortify yourself against broken and unhappy marriage
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Fortify yourself against broken or unhappy marriage What is your greatest fear? Do you battle with the thoughts of being sad in marriage? Have you ever been raised by broken parents? Are you afraid your marriage won’t last? Have you … Read More

Who are you becoming?
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Who are you becoming? Are you becoming the sweet, kind, gentle, and inspiring spouse or just another person looking for marriage? In the less than forty years of your life, what have you BECOME? Are you the type of person … Read More

The type of person to have a happy and long lasting marriage
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The type of person to have a happy and long lasting marriage Every woman is thinking, how do I be the best woman or wife in the world? Every man is thinking how do I be the best husband or … Read More

Pretty face with nothing to offer!
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Pretty face with nothing to offer. Dear woman, they have told you that life is about packaging and you have heeded the call with correct powder, foundation and make up kit. You can have a pretty face and nothing to … Read More

Old enough but not eligible for marriage
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How do you move from being happy in your marriage to being distraught and sad in marriage? It is all about being eligible for marriage. How do you enter a marriage believing that ‘This is The One’, only to feel … Read More

Help me, I get angry easily: How to Overcome Anger!
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Help me, I get angry easily: How to Overcome Anger! I am not proud to say this but it’s the truth that haunt me. My mum’s anger was majorly responsible for the failure of her marriage. They had a good … Read More

The mother and father within
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The Mother and Father Within You!   Every girl is a mother in waiting. Every boy is a father in training as well. The baton of how to ‘mother’ and ‘father’ has been unconsciously passed down to you. In some … Read More

You and Your Marital Future
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You and your marital future!   For many decades youths have been told that they are the leaders of tomorrow. Since the day you were born you have been groomed for the role of a husband or wife unconsciously. They … Read More

The Missing Love in your relationship
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Have you heard of the man that slapped the woman? You must be conversant with the woman that sex-starved her man? These two once professed love to each other but somewhere along the line, the love went missing. You will … Read More

Foolishness and Marriage – Hand in Hand
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Are You Ready to be Foolish? Looking at it from a layman’s view, it was foolishness for David not to have eliminated Saul each time he had the opportunity to in the bible. He would have made himself King but … Read More

Are you eligible for marriage?
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ARE YOU ELIGIBLE FOR MARRIAGE? In the last few days, I have made it obvious that you can be old enough for marriage and not be eligible for it. Eligibility has nothing to do with age. It’s not age that … Read More

Four confirmed reasons why relationships and marriages break
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If you have ever had a failed relationship or marriage.. If you know someone who has had one.. You will reckon with these… Every relationship that has ever broken has their foundation in one of these four things: One or … Read More

Pre-Marriage tip for intending couples
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  Love has been relegated to the sensation feeling the man and the woman have. It’s beyond that. Love is a decision backed by a commitment to be there for someone no matter what.   When you see love from … Read More

Repattern your life
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Patterns creep on us and make us feel helpless.   Most times we are more like our parents – even in the negatives.   No one can be better than the exposures they have had.   When you are preparing … Read More

How to feed and grow your love life
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  Feed your love life and grow it.   CONFESSION: When I am hungry, I get disgruntled and moody. I noticed this pattern in me and had to repattern myself.   However feeding my body helped me stay nourished and … Read More

Why your relationship is in such a mess
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Sadly, most young couples will stop trying to be happy in their marriage after three years. Many newly married will struggle to find the love and happiness they had fantasized about before marriage. In a few years from now, the … Read More

Are you ready to be foolish?
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Looking at it from a layman’s view, it was foolishness for David not to have eliminated Saul each time he had the opportunity to in the bible. David would have made himself King but one thing was sure, history would … Read More

The Partner to Die For
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Yesterday, I took a walk with my wife. I really didn’t want to but after cajoling me a little, I decided to oblige her. We were yet to walk a distance before she started to complain of tiredness. “Why did … Read More

Three Ways to Avoid Your Parent’s Mistakes and Have a Better Love Experience
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Three Ways to Avoid Your Parent’s Mistakes and Have a Better Love Experience | By Gabriel Olatunji-Legend   Today, I want you to say a prayer and I want you to say it passionately. If you can, put your two … Read More

How to Have the Love-Life That You Desire
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Let me ask you, how has your relationship been? How is your love-life? Is it healthy? How do you know if you are in a healthy relationship? You are in a healthy relationship if it’s Peaceful, Blissful, Godly and you … Read More

The Three Categories of Relationship You May Be Practicing
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Let us start by defining what a relationship should really be. A relationship is a partnership between a man and a woman towards the accomplishment of a goal called marriage. Going by this definition, I dare say to you today that … Read More

The Three Things You Need for Success in Your Love Life
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There are three things you need each time there is a problem in or with your relationship life. They are Clarity, Competence, and Commitment. Let me repeat myself as I have mentioned in some previous posts; most relationships have no … Read More

Marriage is not a destination
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Marriage is not a destination. I saw the headline of a couple’s interview online and it immediately triggered the title of this piece. To avoid controversy, I won’t share the title (I can’t fit fight). The desire to have the … Read More

Selfie and Your Relationship
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All of you that love to take selfie on a per minute basis, get in here, I have important information to share with you. This information will help your relationship succeed and ultimately get you to the altar. You know … Read More

Just Before You Break-Up
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“I’m just tired of this relationship. I want out please!!!” Plenty relationships that were once great will break-up this year. I’m sorry. It’s not a curse, it’s a fact. Jude and Janet had been dating for 3 years. They were … Read More

Becoming a High-Value Partner, Getting Your Relationship to the Altar
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It doesn’t take me this long for me to figure out what to write but today it did. You want to know why? Because I couldn’t shake off my recent discovery about the new average life span of marriages. This … Read More

The average lifespan of a marriage now is 3 – 7 years. True or False?
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The average lifespan of a marriage now is 3 – 7 years, and mostly after 2 or 3 kids. This research was carried out on 14 marriages by my friend (I’ll love to mention her name but she hasn’t given … Read More

Relationship Lessons from my Father
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If you have been following me on all my social media platforms, you would have seen my posts about my father before now. He was a great man but he didn’t get it right in the area of marriage, at … Read More

The icing and the Cake
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After tens of personal consultation and coaching with singles who want to have amazing relationships, experience true love and those who want to be able to get their relationships to the altar, it has become evidently clear that most singles … Read More

How to Know He is the Right Man
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Many have written on this topic but many still keep making the mistake of assuming a wrong guy may be the right guy. It is my desire that when you are done with this class you will be certain in your … Read More

Trigger Your Amygdala; Save Your Relationship
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  In my quest to help you succeed in your relationships I took my study into the field of psychology, behavioural therapy and how the brain function. What I was initially looking for was a scientific validation of something I believe … Read More

What to do When You Feel He’s Better Than You
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What do you do when you meet an extra-ordinary person and you begin to feel that they are better than you? People keep asking you what you are bringing to the table but you don’t have an answer for them. … Read More

The types of men you MUST NOT MARRY
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This is the list of the types of men you MUST NOT MARRY. I am unapologetic about this list. Mean – A man that is spiteful, not generous and always doing things that makes you say “that’s not fair”. A … Read More

How to Attract a Partner Even if You are ‘Ugly’
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Some people are called ‘ugly’ in our world and that’s because they do not have an attractive face. I will be sincere with you, being ‘ugly’ can be a disadvantage. The beautiful ones get all the attention and this happens … Read More

Singles, Let Me Clear Your Misconceptions
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Singles need to know about money, sex, love and social life as it relates to relationship and marriage. Let me clear a few of your misconceptions here. 1. Money – Make lots of it. Try as much as possible not … Read More

You are a Prostitute! #ForWomenOnly
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“You have dated over 10 men. Can’t you hold your pant? Is that how sweet the thing is? Come on, be a woman and zip up. That is even why I cannot date you. You think you are pretty? Men … Read More

Sex, Relationship and Marriage
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This story is that of sex, relationship and marriage. Share your thoughts with me below. Blushing like a baby and looking from the altar towards the far entrance of the church. There she was, gorgeous doesn’t even describe her. As … Read More

How to GET IT RIGHT in your relationship By Gabriel Olatunji-Legend
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I was looking through the internet to find out the statistics of break ups in relationships and I found out that a staggering 85 percent of relationships break up. It further went on to say that 50 percent of marriages … Read More

Lessons from David and Esohe’s Relationship By Gabriel Olatunji-Legend
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David was in love with Esohe. She was pretty and intelligent. He met her at a leadership training seminar and was fascinated by the contributions she made during the training. “Can I have your number?”. He didn’t waste time as … Read More

Flirt-chat Confessions and Your Relationship by Gabriel Olatunji-Legend
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Some days ago, I asked young married men if they get tempted to flirt-chat. Sadly, I got more responses from unmarried men than married men. What is more shocking which I didn’t envisage is that quite a number of women also … Read More

Getting That Relationship to the Altar
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On the average, 5 out of every 10 relationships that start now will break up in less than 1 to 5 years. Many people are on their 5th relationship and it’s not like these people just want to play around. … Read More

Dose of Inspiration 5: Why Doctors Also fall Sick
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Dose of Inspiration is a daily inspirational series from me to you Those who are meant to aid our health and our lives also need aiding. The doctors tell us to eat right, take fruits, sleep for certain hours, exercise, … Read More

Dose of Inspiration 4: This is What You Have
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Dose of Inspiration is a daily inspirational series from me to you Some weeks ago I was invited to speak to a group of secondary school teenagers and this was a challenge for me because I was scared I wouldn’t … Read More

Dose of Inspiration 3: The Dilemma of Desire
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Dose of Inspiration is a daily inspirational series from me to you “I want to sleep, and I also want to go to the office”. Have you ever had this dilemma? The two things are good. It is great to … Read More

Dose of Inspiration: You Have A Right to Your Personal Sanity
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Dose of Inspiration is a daily inspirational series from me to you You have a right to your personal sanity. I am absolutely clueless as to why we give up this right. The way you have a right to freedom … Read More

Dose of Inspiration by Gabriel Olatunji-Legend
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Dose of Inspiration is a daily inspirational series from me to you. Sometimes we faint, Sometimes we fall… Sometimes our fall is fatal… Sometimes our fall isn’t… Sometimes we get lucky.   I got hooked to the love of my … Read More

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